Men continue to support dementia mothers for three consecutive years

At 2 o'clock yesterday afternoon, Chen Jianzhong, 58 years old, was on the 2nd floor of No. 3 Xinyuan Garden in Songjiang. She was wearing shoes for her 89-year-old mother, Gong Apo, in front of her house. “A good day, then take mother away.” He took his mother’s hand and slowly walked out of the community, turning and walking... From home to Huating Street Cheng Shifa Art Plaza is only 1 km away. They walked one by one. Hours.

This is a "fixed program" for the mother and child each morning, sometimes repeated in the afternoon. Since Chen’s grandmother got Alzheimer’s, Chen’s life has changed since then. He has helped his mother go out training every morning and has been adhering to the Spring and Autumn Festival for three years.

1 km walk 1 hour

At 4:30 in the morning, the day dawned and Chen Jianzhong got up. After a hurried wash, he came to the old mother's room in the master bedroom. “Whether it is spring, summer, autumn or winter, the mother wakes up after dawn and sits on the bed waiting for her.” Chen Jianzhong said.

Open the window of the mother's room and get an overview of the weather. Chen Jianzhong started dressing his mother, wearing shoes and taking her to the bathroom to wash. After being picked up, at 5:30, the mother and son set off for morning exercises. From the entrance of the community, Xixinqiao Road is folded into Xilin North Road and then turned to Huating Street. The terminal is Cheng Shifa Art Center Plaza.

Because senile dementia was fat and stature, and his mother walked very slowly, Chen Jianzhong did not hesitate to walk aside. When he saw the “unfavorable road conditions” ahead, he immediately took the mother’s hand. Even so, for a short distance of one kilometer, the mother and son must stop and rest three or four times. In the square, Chen Jianzhong first found a good place for his mother to sit down, and then he stood beside her, throwing a few arms around, kicking a few legs and turning back to help her mother squat, rub shoulders, and move a few limbs. After half an hour, I returned home as usual.

Passerby thumbs up

Chen Jianzhong said that for mothers with dementia, this may not be considered "morning exercise." “But Mom likes to go out and walk like this.” In the past three years, Chen Jianzhong has never stopped taking his mother’s “morning exercise” for almost no time. Even if it is raining, as long as the rain is not enough, he will also hold the umbrella in one hand and take care of the mother. Go out and walk around. In the winter, they will choose to go out in the warm afternoon.

Ms. Gong lived in Xixinqiao for most of her life and her husband passed away more than 30 years ago. Among the four sons and four daughters, Chen Jianzhong who lives with her is a young son. Although her mother is getting older, her body has been fairly good. Until 2009, when she met her from her daughter's home, she did not know how to go home. “It was later found through the help of good-hearted people and civilian police.” The astonishing incident frightened the family. From then on, the retired Chen Jianchang adjusted her own schedule to be consistent with her mother and she also quit the mahjong. Keep up early every morning to take the mother out for morning exercise.

The "landscape" sketched by the mother and son was seen by everyone and moved in my heart. Once, a shopkeeper on Huating Old Street suddenly walked in front of Chen Jianzhong and gave him a thumbs-up: “I see you walking with your mother every day. It's not easy!”

Taking care of the mother as a child

In the past three years, the symptoms of Gong Apo have become more and more serious. Now she has no name for family members. She often makes some acts that make people cry and laugh: I have to press the pump button for a long time to finish the toilet; I see the quarrel in the TV. Take a tummy and step forward to “tangle up”... In the face of such a mother, Chen Jianzhong and his wife take care of them as if they are two or three years old. Other brothers and sisters would also like to pick up their mother’s livelihood in the past. However, the mother used to live with him, and he cares for everyone.

The mother likes drama, so the TV in her room is played on the theatrical channel all day long; her mother's food is soft, so the table is always soft enough for the couple to eat too much; the mother wakes up at midnight, so Chen Jianzhong total It was to open the door to sleep; the mother would mix the wash towel with the foot towel, so when washing, Chen Jianzhong and his wife were always on the side; “handle”; the mother would sometimes have a child temper, and Chen Jianzhong and his wife would be resistant to slowness. Slowly...

“Mum dedicate her life to us. All I do now is what my son should do, and where is her one thousandth?” In the face of others’ admiration, Chen Jianzhong expressed his heart in plain words.

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